Are you in costume everyday of your life? At work...at home... are you who you really are, or are you role playing all the time? Have you lost track of who you really are? Are you really you when you are working with your clients and customers? The point of this question is to ask “do you assume a role”? How do you show up to work with clients, customers, or when you are out networking? In addition, do you have MVS syndrome? This stands for Multiple Value Systems. There is the … [Read more...]
Are You Lost In A Costume Everyday of Your Life?
Are you in costume everyday of your life? At work, at home are you who you really are, or are you role playing all the time...have you lost track of who you really are? Are you really you when you are working with your clients and customers? The point of this question is to ask "do you assume a role"? Essentially are you in costume when you show up to work with clients, customers, or when you are out networking. Is this what you do? In addition, do you have MVS syndrome? This stands for … [Read more...]
How Do You Measure Success?
In the sport of baseball a batter who is considered exceptional does not get a good result slightly more than two out of three times at bat. Yes it’s true! A batter who consistently registers a .300 batting average is a high quality prospect and player in baseball. This translates to the other slightly more than two at bats where an out was made. Not a hit. The intended result. An out. Not the intended result. How does that register with you? Would you be happy with one yes out of three … [Read more...]
At a Dead End?
It’s a Dead End! Your cell phone has no power left. The party you left ended late at night. You were pretty sure you made the right turn to head back to the main road. The area you are driving in might be in Northern New Jersey, on Long Island, a suburb of L.A. or San Diego or outside of Chicago or Houston. Every turn you make goes into another cul-de-sac and another Dead End! “How will I ever find my way out of this maze!” you are thinking or screaming out. Let's take a right on … [Read more...]
