What do you want? When we speak with people everyone is very clear and more than willing to share with us what they don’t want. I don’t want to go back to work in the office five days a week? I don’t want to commute an hour and a half to work each way any more. Either way, three days, five days, no more suit and tie – that’s over. …and the list goes on… Feel free to go to the comments and add yours to the list. What the large majority of people are fuzzy, unclear or have no … [Read more...]
Do You Wear a Costume?
Are you in costume everyday of your life? At work...at home... are you who you really are, or are you role playing all the time? Have you lost track of who you really are? Are you really you when you are working with your clients and customers? The point of this question is to ask “do you assume a role”? How do you show up to work with clients, customers, or when you are out networking? In addition, do you have MVS syndrome? This stands for Multiple Value Systems. There is the … [Read more...]
Are You Lost In A Costume Everyday of Your Life?
Are you in costume everyday of your life? At work, at home are you who you really are, or are you role playing all the time...have you lost track of who you really are? Are you really you when you are working with your clients and customers? The point of this question is to ask "do you assume a role"? Essentially are you in costume when you show up to work with clients, customers, or when you are out networking. Is this what you do? In addition, do you have MVS syndrome? This stands for … [Read more...]
It’s A Bird
Who knows what hit me? One day recently while at the NJ Shore the birds of all types were looking around for their people food. You know what the birds are looking for right? Bags of Doritos left out on a beach blanket. Any type of chips left unguarded by a beach chair. The birds would stalk around the area. They look to see if there was anyone around or at least not paying any attention to the target bag. Then quickly when the moment was right - go in for the kill! Grab the bag and … [Read more...]
