What do you want? When we speak with people everyone is very clear and more than willing to share with us what they don’t want. I don’t want to go back to work in the office five days a week? I don’t want to commute an hour and a half to work each way any more. Either way, three days, five days, no more suit and tie – that’s over. …and the list goes on… Feel free to go to the comments and add yours to the list. What the large majority of people are fuzzy, unclear or have no … [Read more...]
Are You Caught In The Quicksand of Stress and Frustration?
Seriously, are you caught in the quicksand of stress and frustration? This really applies to everything…for everyone doesn’t it? “If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change the way you think about it.” — Mary Engelbreit We each have our way and our views of how things should be. Some have an even stronger viewpoint, as in, they view how things have to be! A longer article is needed for how these views come to be, however, it’s a combination of upbringing … [Read more...]
Look In The Mirror
Wherever you are located – the office, at work, your home, traveling – take a moment today and look in the mirror and make eye contact with the person you see. This is the person who others see when they look at you. Who do they see? They see the person you let them see. Is this the person you want them to see? Who are you really? Is it time to open up a bit – at least a little crack – let some of the real you enter into the interaction you have everyday with people? Sure your inner … [Read more...]
It’s A Bird
Who knows what hit me? One day recently while at the NJ Shore the birds of all types were looking around for their people food. You know what the birds are looking for right? Bags of Doritos left out on a beach blanket. Any type of chips left unguarded by a beach chair. The birds would stalk around the area. They look to see if there was anyone around or at least not paying any attention to the target bag. Then quickly when the moment was right - go in for the kill! Grab the bag and … [Read more...]